Unit 10 - Final Post

In Unit 3 we were asked to score ourselves through a personal assessment of our psychological, physical and spiritual well-being.  I rated myself as a 7 or 8 in my physical assessment but then I developed Bronchitis last week and have not been active, I cough constantly and I am finding that I don’t take care of myself the way I need to.  Prior to this past week I would say that I felt I was at an 8 physically because I was running more and finding it felt great to be active.  Currently, I would have to rate myself as a 6, I am taking my antibiotics and using the inhaler and staying hydrated but I still have lack of energy, I actually took a 5 hour nap last Thursday, I do not recall the last time I “napped.”  Spiritually I have improved, I attend church with my boys and we started staying for the later worship service to hear the music; my youngest loves the Christian Rock that they play and I feel more connected to God.  I was a 5 two months ago but I have improved to a 7.  Psychologically I stated before that I was a 7 because I was facing my own demons.  I have faced some of my demons and I have laughed at them trying to bring down my day.  I ended a relationship recently with someone that was good to me but had a  lot of baggage and I feel free again and ready for the next step in my life.  I am also working on a better relationship with my ex-husband so my boys will be happier.  I was a 7 two months ago but now I would have to say that I am an 8 or possibly an 8.5.  I am not afraid to share what is on my mind and I do not fear the reaction I may get.

Physically I wanted to learn how to do other physically active things with my kids, we did take a bike ride to the park with me running along a couple of weeks ago, they enjoyed it and so did I.  Other than that I have backed off of exercise as I get well and get over the bronchitis.  Spiritually I wanted to be able to actually focus and clear my mind and I have found a bit more time for this.  With the passing of my Grandma I find myself pausing while completing my homework and thinking of the things I love about her.  I am not sure if it qualifies as meditation but it  has become my new motivation.  I do not know that I have done better in my relationships, I ended my 9month relationship two weeks ago but I do feel content with my decision.  Psychologically I began to trust that someone could be there for me but found myself alone, again, so I feel a bit defeated with that.  However, I had the courage to stand up and say how I felt.  Also, I learned that forgiveness can take a weight off my shoulders and I am ready to forgive my ex and move on to a healthier psychological self.

I have learned more about myself in this course than I expected.  I am a strong-willed person and I have found that I have areas that are weak and need improvement.  Being forced to take a look at myself and admit my flaws and shortcomings has better prepared me for assessing my clients and asking them what they think needs improvement for them.  In a way, the course has been a “taste of my own medicine” because much of what we did I can use with my clients to help them through issues they may be having.  I would say that I have definitely improved my overall well-being and I have become more confident.  I am ready to face the world with my head held high, my mind clear, my body healthy, and my spirit willing to face what is next!

A Plan for a Healthier and Whole Me - Unit 9 Project

I.  Introduction

            Being healthy, there are so many definitions and ideas about what healthy means.  According to the World Health Organization, “health is a state of complete physical, mental and social well-being and not merely the absence of disease or infirmity.” (WHO, 1948).  For over 60 years health has been seen as a state of wellness for one’s mind, body and spirit; though modern medicine does not always encourage this, health and wellness professionals know that it is an important part of the healing process.  I want to be healthy and be at a level of wholeness; I need to make a plan to improve my physical health, develop my spirituality more and to focus my mind to be more in-tune to myself.

II.  Assessment

            During the past nine weeks I have assessed my mind, body and spirit and I have seen where my issues in health are.  I am not concerned about myself physically as far as exercise is concerned.  I would rate myself at about a nine on my physical health because I know I always have room for improvement and could eat healthier but I am an active person without any medical issues.  Spiritually, I am a six but I am working my way up from the four I started at.  I have never understood how to improve my spirituality but I have learned.  Psychologically I am a six, many things have happened in the last 18 months that have taught me the necessity for inner-strength and forgiveness. 

III. Goal Development

            I believe that everyone has an addiction, something they do that they think helpls them focus.  My addiction is running, as long as I am able to go on a run the world is a very wonderful place.  However, my body does not always allow me to run because I have hip joint issues and osteoporosis which causes my bones to ache because they are weak.  My physical goal would be to learn other active things I can do that will give me the same stress relief that running does without the side effects.  I want to be able to learn to do new activities that get my boys involved but won’t break my legs, literally.  I also want to be more health conscious with the foods that I eat; working in the evenings does not lead to the best eating habits.

            I am learning to be more in-tune to myself so I can gain a higher level of spirituality.  My spiritual goal is to practice more visualization and calming exercises to gain the internal peace and confidence I lack.  Meeting Asclepius is a wonderful exercise that helps one find their inner-healer and the inner-wisdom which I could definitely use.  I want to be able to actually focus and clear my mind; I am very high strung and it causes me to struggle in relationships. 

            Psychologically I said I was a six, I am not completely screwed up but I have my own demons.  I need to learn to remain calm even if am not in control and learn to trust that someone else can do things, even if it is not the way I want it done.  I need to learn more greatfulness for all the wonderful things that happen in my life and learn more forgiveness over all the not so wonderful things that happen in my life.  I also want to improve my ability to focus and concentrate even when I am under stress.

IV.  Practices for Personal Health

            For all my goals to be met I must first find the paths that lead to them.  Physically, I want to be healthier and learn to take care of myself better.  To be healthier physically I will make healthier food choices based off what I have learned in my classes for health and wellness.  I will practice smarter eating habits and try to avoid unhealthy snacking by reaching for a carrot instead of chips.  Also, my body needs more TLC so I can be more active so I plan to begin bike riding on the days that my hips hurt and only run when my hips and bones feel strong.

            I have already grown spiritually in the past couple months but I look forward to feeling a deeper sense of wholeness and connectedness through spiritual practice.  Meditation is used by many people to calm their mind and become more focused.  For my first spiritual practice I will use meditation for ten minutes a day.  As I mentioned before, I am very high-strung and this leads to stress in my interpersonal relationships so I will begin using meditation to calm and focus my mind.  I have also found Meeting Asclepius to be a beneficial exercise that I will practice routinely; I want to feel that I am wise to boost my inner-strength.  “Experience your mind, voice, and heart as you take on the qualities of the wise one.  Become this person.” (Dacher, 2006).  Also, I plan to use the most recent visualization exercise that I learned.  In this visualization, Dacher asks the reader to think of a happy time, a time of wholeness and a time of vitality to become more in-tune to one’s inner-self.

            Mental fitness is a way that I can improve my psychological self.  I can practice using my opposite hand when I eat to help strengthen my mind and I can also practice more thought exercises to become more contemplative.  I also plan to focus more on gratefulness and forgiveness as part of my plan.  I have been through a lot this past year and I need to let people that have been there for me know that I am grateful they are in my life.  I need to be able to forgive as well, holding a grudge will not help me reach a clam, peaceful inner-self.

V. Commitment

            I will implement my plan so I can reach my physical, spiritual and psychological goals.  After six months I will re-evaluate my mind, body and spirit to see if my ratings have improved.  Accountability is the main focus for reaching my goals; I have to hold myself accountable to make the changes that are necessary for growth.  I will also let my family know my goals so they can help me stay on the right track, I will learn to say “Thank you!” more and to stop and breath more often.  In the long-term it is up to me to make continued improvements.

Dacher, E. S. (2006). Integral Health: The Path to Human Flourishing. Laguna Beach, Ca: Basic

Health Publications

World Health Organization. (1948). Definition of Health. Retrieved February 11, 2011 from

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My Mental Fitness Plan

I want to be a stronger and more centered person.  Recent events in my life have caused me to wonder where my path is, I need to check my GPS and make sure I didn't take a wrong turn.  Life can be complicated but I plan to use two of the exercises that we have learned so I can improve my mind to find my wholeness again.  I find that the Meeting Asclepius was a wonderful exercise and enjoyed thinking of a loved one that I found to be wise.  I want to feel that I am wise, a way to boost my inner strength and confidence.  I can practice this exercise to find my inner-self and inner healer to guide me to integral health.  “Experience your mind, voice, and heart as you take on the qualities of the wise one.  Become this person.” (Dacher, 2006).  The other exercise that I intend to practice is a visualization exercise that we completed this week in discussion board.  This visualization exercise can help me become more centered and calmed when things become hard to face in life.  The exercise is a creative visualization and, as Dacher explains, “By practicing the following creative visualization, you can experience a taste of human flourishing.” (Dacher, 2006).  There are three parts to the visualization, Dacher asks the reader to think of a time the experienced happiness, then think of a time they experienced wholeness and, finally, think of a time they experienced vitality.  Life can be overwhelming at times but I will be able to face things in my life if I learn to practice these exercises daily and when my stressors begin to overpower me.

Dacher, Elliott (2006).  Integral Health:  The Path to Human Flourishing.  Basic Health Publications, Inc.  Laguna Beach:  CA.

"One cannot lead another where one has not gone himself." (Schiltz, et. al., 2005). Simply stated, we cannot expect someone to do as we say if we don't do the same thing.  If you tell your child not to smoke yet you smoke you are misleading them.  As a helth and wellness proefssional you cannot expect to tell your clients about the benefits of cardiovascualr exercise if the only exercise you get is walking into work from your car.  You have to practice what you preach and set a good example for clients.  When working in the health industry it is vital that we also develop our helath through mind, body and spirit to be able to understand what our clients experience and relaly be able to explain things thoroughly to clients.  If we don't know first hand how something is than it is hard to set the client's mind at ease that we know what we are doing. "In the book it says . . . " is  a lot less inviting than, "when I did that meditation exercise last I . . ." things go much more smoothly when we know what we are talking about.  Creadability says a lot about soemone's passion for what they do and client's need to know that what you are saying is the truth so they do not beel lost in their way to a healthier mind/body/spirit.  Implementing psychological and spiritual growth can be added to my life through a more thorough udnerstanding of my spiritual self and noticing my wise self more.  I need to believe in myself so I can find the spirituality that is within me!

Schiltz, M., et. al. (2005). Consciousness & Healing: Integral Approaches to Mind-Body Medicine. Elsevier Inc: St. Louis, MO. 

Meeting Asclepius

Meeting Asclepius was an interesting exercise.  Aslepius is the wise healer inside us that guides us as we move through the integral process.  For the exercise I chose to picture my grandmother, she has been waiting at deaths door for about a week and she touched my life greatly.  She is graceful, kind and loves to laugh; she is definitely someone that would lend a hand when she could and offered to help with the dishes well into her 90s as the Alzheimer's crept in.  The exercise was a great way to show you that you have a wise person inside you if you think about it and you need to welcome the wise person.  I am not sure if I truly feel that I have a wise healer inside me but I enjoyed searching for it and may do that again in the next few days to feel closer to my grandma. 

Mindfulness and meditation have helped me find a calmer inner self, one that is able to look at the calmer side of situations before becoming panicked.  I am sad to see my grandma passing away but I know that she will be at peace and she will be with our God so I am more at peace with it.  I have found that I am able to get along with my Ex-husband more since I started finding my inner self and started incoorporating more meditation into my life.  I find that my own variation of meditation works best because my time is so limited.  I spend a few moments each day just thinking about my day adn looking at the bright side of life even in the darkest hours.  I find that when I am in the shower I am able to concentrate enough to take that moment for myself to calm my mind and think about my day and focus on my tasks.  I plan to continue my moment of calmness each day and try to add in some more at the end of my day when I am not too tired.  Instead of falling asleep doing homework I will try to focus on my coursework and then relax for a moment as I calm my mind at the end of my day and prepare to sleep, if only for a few hours. 

Dacher, E. S. (2006). Integral Health: The Path to Human Flourishing. Laguna Beach, CA: Basic Health Publications.